I'd been talking to him for just over a month. Nice messages, good morning texts, always had an excuse why we couldn't meet yet though. Work, family stuff, bad timing. I didn't think much of it at first.

There were little red flags but nothing massive. His Instagram felt a bit empty, like it didn't really show much of his life. He also said he "wasn't really on social media" which I believed, sort of. Still, something felt off and I couldn't explain why.

I found Partner Check and decided to search his number, mostly just to settle my own head. The report came back with way more than I expected. It showed multiple social profiles linked to the same number, but under different names.

That's when it clicked. I wasn't crazy. I wasn't imagining things. He was literally presenting different versions of himself to different people. I stopped talking to him that day. No confrontation, no drama, just blocked and moved on.

Honestly, Partner Check saved me from wasting more time and getting more emotionally invested. I wish I'd done it sooner instead of doubting myself.

I met him through a dating app and we started talking pretty much every day. He was charming and funny and seemed really interested in my life, which felt nice.

But there were small things that didn't sit right. He'd avoid certain questions, or change the subject when I asked about his past. He also never wanted to video call, which I brushed off at first because not everyone likes that stuff.

After about three weeks I decided to use Partner Check, mainly for my own peace of mind. I told myself if it came back clean, I'd relax. It didn't. The report showed details that didn't match what he'd told me.

What hurt most wasn't even the lies, it was realising how easily I'd talked myself out of my instincts. Using Partner Check didn't make me paranoid, it made me informed.

We'd been seeing each other for nearly six months. Met through mutual friends, spent weekends together, talked about holidays and future plans. I had no reason to doubt him, or at least that's what I kept telling myself.

Then small things started happening. Messages that felt a bit secretive. His phone always face down. He'd get defensive over nothing. I convinced myself it was stress, work pressure, life stuff. Still, the feeling wouldn't go away.

I used Partner Check late one night, not really expecting anything to come back. I almost hoped it wouldn't. The report showed active social profiles I'd never seen. Different usernames, different photos, still clearly him.

Seeing that hurt more than I expected. It wasn't dramatic, just quietly devastating. What Partner Check gave me wasn't just information, it was clarity.

I stopped questioning myself and stopped making excuses for behaviour that didn't sit right. I ended things a few days later. Calmly. Without needing to explain every detail. Looking back, I don't regret checking. I regret not listening to myself sooner.